Practice in Santa Barbara County and San Luis Obispo County since 1982. Practice limited to Bankruptcy law including Chapter 7 (individual and business) as well as Chapter 13 (individuals - wage earns and business owners).
A: You are looking at/for big time trouble. Take care of business (i.e. get divorced) before you create a situation that can only make matters worse, and more difficult in reaching a resolution. Talk to an attorney in your area about how to "properly" handle this before you make any sudden move(s).