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Lorna M. Jaynes
  • Arbitration & Mediation, Civil Rights, Divorce...
  • California
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Practice Areas
  • Arbitration & Mediation
  • Civil Rights
  • Divorce
  • Family Law
Jurisdictions Admitted to Practice
California
Languages
  • English: Spoken, Written
Professional Experience
Education
Santa Clara University School of Law
J.D.
Honors: Dean’s List; AmJur award Legal Research & Writing Comment published in Santa Clara Law Review, Emissions Trading: Pollution Panacea or Environmental Injustice
Activities: Sr. Articles Editor, Santa Clara Law Review
University of Victoria, Victoria, B.C., Canada
B.S. | Biology & Psychology
Awards
Wiley Manuel Award for Pro Bono Service
State Bar of California
Professional Associations
International Association of Collaborative Professionals
Member
Current
Collaborative Practice Silicon Valley
Member
Current
Collaborative Practice East Bay
Member
Current
Association for Conflict Resolution
Member
Current
Mediators Without Borders
Founding Member
Current
International Alliance of Holistic Lawyers
Member
Current
Academy of Professional Family Mediators
Founding Member
Current
California State Bar
Member
Current
Santa Clara County Bar Association
Member
Current
Alameda County Bar Association
Member
Current
Certifications
Collaborative Attorney
International Academy of Collaborative Professionals
Family Mediator
Academy of Professional Family Mediators
Legal Answers
4 Questions Answered

Q. If I want a divorce from my wife, am I required by to pay alimony before the separation/divorce is legal and on paper?
A: There is no way to answer your question without far more information. Whether or not you will owe child support depends on the amount of time your son spends with each of you and each of your incomes. Whether or not you will owe spousal support depends on the length of the marriage, the ability and opportunity to earn, the assets and debts in question, the extent one earns less because they have been a stay a home parent, among other factors as well. And child support and spousal support don't have anything to do with wither or not you are legally separated or divorced. Your next steps should probably be predicated on whether or not you and your wife want to remain married or whether it might be best to separate and divorce, not on who might have to pay support. Ideally, since you have a child together and will be co-parents forever, you can find a way to end the marriage and have a positive and supporting co-parenting relationship.
Q. my divorce was returned as rejected, the judge said i need to address spousal support for both parties.
A: Spousal support must be addressed in any judgment of dissolution. So, depending on the type of judgment and the jurisdiction, you either need to address the issue in a marital settlement agreement or FL343 or both.
Q. My husband and I have been separated for 5 years. We are just now going through the divorce process. I retired in 2016.
A: Assuming the funds in the IRA were acquired through your efforts during your marriage it is community property.
Q. Is the person receiving CS responsible for travel expenses to see the other parent? Ex. Airline ticket
A: If the court order addresses the issue then your answer is there. If the court order does not address the issue, there is unfortunately no right answer to the question - it depends. Commonly, travel expenses are shared equally or perhaps proportionally depending on the circumstances and sometimes one person might be responsible. But, ideally, rather than going to court to litigate an issue like this, the parties could try to work together through perhaps mediation, to reach an agreement that works well for both. This is certainly recommended before filing any motions.
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Law & Mediation Office of Lorna Jaynes
Fremont, CA
110 J St
Fremont, CA 94536
USA
Telephone: (510) 795-6304
Fax: (510) 405-9022
Law & Mediation Office of Lorna Jaynes
San Jose, CA
2570 N 1st St
2nd Floor
San Jose, CA 95131
USA
Telephone: (510) 795-6304
Fax: (510) 405-9022
Law & Mediation Office of Lorna Jaynes
Pleasanton, CA
6200 Stoneridge Mall Rd
#300
Pleasanton, CA 94588
USA
Telephone: (510) 795-6304
Fax: (510) 405-9022
Law & Mediation Office of Lorna Jaynes
San Francisco, CA
101 California St.
#2450
San Francisco, CA 94111
USA
Telephone: (510) 795-6304
Fax: (510) 405-9022