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Gregory M. Lendino

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  • New York
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Elder Law
Real Estate Law
Commercial Real Estate, Condominiums, Eminent Domain, Mortgages, Neighbor Disputes, Residential Real Estate
Family Law
Child Custody, Child Support, Guardianship & Conservatorship, Restraining Orders
Probate
Probate Administration, Probate Litigation
Estate Planning
Guardianship & Conservatorship Estate Administration, Health Care Directives, Trusts, Wills
Additional Practice Area
  • Article 81 Guardianships
Jurisdictions Admitted to Practice
New York
New York State Office of Court Administration
ID Number: 5135405
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  • English: Spoken, Written
  • Italian: Spoken, Written
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9 Questions Answered
Q. Will a will and trust ensure I'm entitled to the house if my husband passes?
A: Based on your description, a Will and a Trust are insufficient to ensure that the house goes to you (or your son) in the event that your husband dies.

Why? Because you described the house as being half owned by your Father in Law, and half owned by your husband. Your husband's will can only handle matters belonging to his estate. If the property is deeded as you described, then his Will (or any other document) can only handle his 50% ownership. Assuming this, you would then be half owner with your father in law.

After handling many of these, my advice is that you need more proper and thorough estate planning. At a minimum, it would require a review by an attorney to guide you and give you some peace of mind regarding this issue. This area of law can be tricky to navigate on your own. ... Read More
Q. Validity of a will regarding power of appointment in NY
A: Your question involves a power of appointment clause, which can impact the validity and distribution of assets under a will. In New York probate law, this type of provision can be strictly interpreted, so if the power of appointment was not exercised or submitted for probate within 90 days, the legal consequences could depend on a few key factors.

What Could Happen If the Power of Appointment Was Not Exercised in Time?

The Power of Appointment May Expire

If the will or trust requires that the power be exercised within 90 days of death, and it was not, the ability to direct assets through the power could be lost. This could mean that default beneficiaries (as stated in the will or trust) inherit instead.

The Will Itself May Still Be Valid

A failure to exercise the power of appointment typically does not invalidate the will as a whole.

However, the specific assets or trust funds linked to the power could revert to default heirs or beneficiaries.

Precedents & Court Interpretation

New York courts generally enforce the language of wills and trusts, unless there’s a legal reason (like ambiguity or undue influence) to override it. There may be cases where courts have ruled on whether a missed deadline for exercising a power of appointment invalidates a bequest, but this depends on how strictly the clause is worded.

What Should You Do Next?

Since the validity of the will and distribution of assets could be at stake, it’s important to review the document carefully and determine if there’s room for legal interpretation. You may need an attorney to assist you with that.
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Q. Can I gain legal rights to a child I've raised, not biologically mine, in NY?
A: It’s great that you’ve been a consistent and caring presence in this child’s life. Since you are not the biological or legal parent, gaining legal rights in New York can be challenging, but it may be possible, depending on the circumstances.

What Legal Options Could You Have?

1. Seeking Legal Custody or Guardianship

If you believe the mother’s home is unsafe and the child would be better off with you, you could petition the court for custody or guardianship.

Courts prioritize the child’s best interests, and since you’ve been raising them for seven years, the judge could consider your role significant.

If the mother is willing, she could agree to a legal arrangement granting you custody or guardianship.

2. Exploring "Parent-Like" Rights (Psychological Parent)

In some cases, courts recognize non-biological parental figures who have acted as the child’s primary caregiver.

If you’ve been financially supporting the child, making decisions for them, and have a strong, ongoing relationship, you may be able to argue for legal rights under what’s known as a "de facto" or "psychological parent" claim.

3. Emergency Custody if the Child Is in Danger

If you believe the child’s safety is at risk, you could report concerns to Child Protective Services (CPS) or file for emergency custody in Family Court.

If the home is unsafe and authorities confirm neglect or danger, the court could place the child with you as a more stable guardian.

Next Steps: Contact Our Office

Since you’ve been raising this child for years, you may have legal options to protect your relationship. However, these cases can be complex, and the sooner you act, the better.

✅ We can help you explore custody, guardianship, or visitation options

✅ If the child is in danger, we can guide you through emergency legal action

✅ We’ll help you understand your rights and fight for what’s best for the child

Let’s set up a time to talk—give us a call, and we’ll walk you through the process.
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Law Office of Gregory M. Lendino
7622 17th Avenue
Brooklyn, NY 11214
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Telephone: (347) 692-0222
Monday: 10 AM - 5 PM
Tuesday: 10 AM - 5 PM (Today)
Wednesday: 10 AM - 5 PM
Thursday: 10 AM - 5 PM
Friday: 10 AM - 5 PM
Saturday: Closed
Sunday: Closed
Notice: By Appointment Only